and then u gonna have sex -> baby's -> much money needed -> u don't have money because u have no work -> can't buy food -> ur wife wants DG-stuff -> can't afford -> girl break up with u -> and then we are back with sex but no with other girl
You only live once, make the best out of it. Even if you know that you won't get her, atleast try to tell her your feelings. If you won't tell her, it will feel like you're bearing a stone in your heart. But if you tell her, that stone will disappear.
Or you can take your own choice. Like, think about the way you want it. Don't let other people from another country make the choice. We don't even know how you are or how the girl are. We don't know something about it. The only thing we know, is what you told us. Out of that, we can't make some choice. I bet we all have some girls we like. But, the girls is different. Maybe you should think about it. We gave you some tips, now it's your turn to take a choice. All i can say now is: Good luck with the girl, hope everything goes well with you and her.