Hey guys. There's a girl in my class that I really fancy. Problem is that I cannot talk to her what so ever because I'm too bloody shy to. Can'T even talk to her over Facebook or MSN. And biggest problem of all is that my best friend kind of has her heart... In other words she likes him, not me. I'm feeling like shit right now.. Can any of you help me out on this situation... Please...
There is two options you have. 1: Hit ur friend in the balls and run. 2: You cant be hiding. thats for loosers, So you got to be brave and do small steps at the time, like... Try talk to her. even if its just a tiny "Hey" or "Hi" but its a start.
Your biggest problem is than you is shy.. And thats normal. I've been in your situation and my biggest problem was just the same... that i where shy. So you got to get rid of your "shyness" and try in someway pratice. You got a lot of job in head of ya but with a little bit of luck i bet you will do fine
1. Take action - If you won't take action, who will? 2. If you don't take action, trust me - You will regret it.
It's good to be shy. Sometimes you'll end up in embarrassing situations with her; that's where you should start taking action. Don't go saying ''I love you'' right to her face, because, 1) it doesn't show the impression, 2) she might not acknowledge you, and she might end up ignoring you. Try to find an embarrassing situation where you're both alone, try to talk with her and make her laugh, and over time you'll develop a somewhat close connection to her, thus making it easier for you to talk with her.
Also, does your friend like her aswell? If not, try speaking with him and ask if he can help you.
I've had a little experience myself, but it's kind of hard to explain to others.. Everyone loves and receives love in different ways.
Dave, you should try to talk to her. If not you will regret like Kevin said. If you get confirmed that she don't like you or don't want to talk to you, atleast you know it.
